Wear Your Joy

Let’s make your heart visible & wearable

Are you ready to fundamentally change
the way you look at getting dressed?

Join the Movement

of more than 3,000 women who have participated in Wear Your Joy™

Wear Your Joy™ is soul work — with style

A self-paced, four part course, which includes 23 lessons and 4 meditations. 

Transform your experience of getting dressed each day into a practice of celebrating your self.

Read & practice one lesson per day, or one lesson per week. Go at a pace that feels good to you.

Forever access to the gorgeously designed classroom so you can revisit the lessons as often as you’d like.

Does this sound familiar?

“I have a wardrobe full of clothes, but I never have anything to wear! Getting dressed isn’t fun anymore, it’s a chore. I’m not even sure what suits me and I don’t feel excited about my clothes. ”

When I look in the mirror, I have a lot of negative self-talk and struggle with judging myself. I wish I had more compassion & loving acceptance of my body. Also, shopping feels stressful!

“I’ve gained or lost weight, gotten older, become a new mom or am in some kind of period of transition and I just don’t know how to dress for my body (or my soul) anymore…!”

“I struggle when I hear loved ones make snide remarks about my curves.”

“I feel like style is for fashionistas, not real women with real bodies.”

“I feel isolated and adrift in a sea of clothing items that feel like they belong on another person’s skin.”

Wear Your Joy™ is an antidote to these feelings of inauthenticity and disconnection.


Chariti’s Story

“Who knew that a course about clothing could be SO life changing?!?

In just the first week alone, I’ve experienced a deep sense of loving appreciation for my body (which is new for a gal that’s carried around body shame like a badge of honor for 41 years). I’ve re-invented my wardrobe, and I’ve made more sweet + supportive + genuine friends than I can count on two hands. I am so so grateful for this course.”


There have been many seasons of my life when I’ve dreaded getting dressed each morning. As a result, I lost a real sense of who I was.

Wear Your Joy™ started as an experiment in rediscovering and reclaiming myself, and it has grown from there, sparking a movement of conscious joy wearers.

This is about so MUCH more than the clothes.

This practice will open your heart and awaken new ways of seeing yourself. In so many ways, this course is about remembering who you are.

WHAT TO Expect

Turn your morning routine of getting dressed into a spiritual practice that brings more intention and joy to your life. 

Transition from finding shopping stressful to soulful. Unlearn all the ‘rules’ you’ve believed about how you should dress and discover your authentic style.

Break free from negative self-talk and finally see yourself through a more compassionate lens.

Give yourself permission to embrace where you are today, no matter your size, age, or cash flow.

Get out of a ‘rut’ and discover inspiration and creativity again, in a fun, accessible, easy going way.

Find other women who are a vibrant community of  joy wearers.

Courtney’s Story

A couple years ago, I gained a lot of weight and no longer felt comfortable enough to wear the clothes I loved. I started to feel uncomfortable in my own skin. I wanted to wear whatever would help me hide the most. After Wear Your JoyTM, getting dressed now feels like an adventure! I completely purged my closet and stopped fantasizing about maybe one day fitting back into my old clothes.

I decided to not only accept but also APPRECIATE me and give myself permission to wear whatever the heck I wanted!

The more joy I wore, the more sunshine I felt and saw through my depression and anxiety. Before, I felt like Charlie Brown, always walking around with a cloud over my head. Now, I’m more intentional about FINDING and SEEKING joy in all things, not just my clothing.

Wearing my joy makes me braver and more courageous to take on life and all its messy, brutal and beautiful moments. I’m more gentle with my heart and give myself the permission to not hide, to love me for me, and to no longer just tolerate myself, but to really and truly adore myself and all my messiness.

HOW IT Works

When you sign up, you’ll receive access to our private classroom where all of the content will be waiting for you.

You can work your way through the content at a pace that feels good for you. You have forever access to the class. Hello, ease!

Excavate Your Joy

This is all about inner work—or what I like to call ‘joy excavation work’. While slowly bringing some consciousness to getting dressed in joy each day, you will bring awareness to what inspires you, who inspires you, what fashion rules you want to unlearn, and what permissions you want to give yourself.

Claim + Honor Your Joy

While continuing your practice of wearing your joy each day, you’ll step into the love-filled process of claiming your inner essence, and honor it with body positive practices (no more body shaming). You’ll end the week inspired to align what you wear with who you actually are.

Dress Up Your Joy

You’ll dive deeper into the practice of getting dressed in joy with loving challenges that will help you create your own rules when it comes to dressing your body shape with style and color you love. You’ll also do a conscious closet clean out, making room only for what brings joy.

Style + Radiate Your Joy

You’ll continue to learn ways play with style. You’ll learn how to integrate all that you’ve learned – creating new beliefs, learning to trust your choices and voice even more deeply –  and looking at how the Wear Your Joy practice can be applied to other parts of our lives (home, work spaces, and much more).

Just $79

Come join us for what has been a profound experience for so many women.

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Sharon’s Story


Before Wear Your Joy, I’d lost my way with fashion. When we are young, I think fashion is easy and fun. As we age, it becomes more difficult to know what is age appropriate as well as fashionable. My closet was full, but my style felt empty and no longer reflective of who I was.

I knew I should wear things that I loved, but I had somehow lost my confidence to do so because I worried about what other people thought. Wear Your Joy showed me that it’s possible to wear what you love AND look stylish and confident. That was a true surprise.

I can open my closet and know that whatever I put on will be appropriate, feel good and reflect who I am today. It’s so fun because I no longer buy anything I don’t love. Every piece of clothing I have gives me joy…truly!

I now choose how I want to spend my time more thoughtfully, learning to say ‘no’ to things that I don’t really enjoy. Wear Your Joy taught me it’s not only ok, but important, to make your life your own. It has truly changed my life for the better. Of all the online courses I’ve taken, this one was one of the most important and influential.

“This by far has been one of the BEST self-awareness things I have ever done for myself.

I host a retreat for women who have experienced sexual trauma. One of the questions I’m often asked is: ‘How do I change the tapes playing in my head?’ I have never had such a clear and defined answer for that question as I do now, after the Wear Your Joy™ experience. Kelly Rae has given us a treasure trove of ways to ‘re-write’ our tapes (or gremlins), and experience real self-love and real joy. Now, the women who come to my retreat will not only see the inside of my heart, but the outside too, because I now wear my joy.”

- Wear Your Joy™ Student

I read the first 100 words and immediately burst into tears of relief.

I feel a sense of reconciliation and openness filling my heart already, in the way I relate to the world and to myself, to the mama-me, the artist-me, the wife-me, and, well, just me.”

— Laly

“I have LOVED every moment, every word and lesson.

Like all of Kelly Rae’s classes, this is an invitation to show up, go deep, listen to your heart’s whispers, have fun, grow and be more than you ever dreamed YOU could be!!”

— Carol McCracken

“This is the first time ever I’ve really felt beautiful.

I have worked for years on trying to break out of the negative thinking and self talk about my body… Nothing has been as profoundly effective at changing ALL OF THAT as the Wear Your Joy™ course.”

- Wear Your Joy™ student

Just $79

Come join us for what has been a profound experience for so many women.

All sales are final.